Healing the people pleaser

We Are Not Alone (what you learn growing up with an addicted parent)

Today, I believe in the answers that are inside us. Today, I look at how my horrible loneliness hurts, heals and helps. Today, I turn towards the GOD SIZE HOLE within me and fill it with the c*ck of the universe. Literally.

Today, other people will not be the problem or the solution. Today, aching loneliness will have a voice, a dance and a meal with me. Today, I nurture relationships that AFFIRM my sense of belonging.

Today, I promise over time to forgive you for everything. Today, I am a real person and not your projections. Today, I know how to set small boundaries, love myself and not base my survival on your approval.

Today, I gradually release my need to fix instead of feel. Today, I am afraid AND strong enough to face my fears of being honest with myself and others. Today, I stand in the courage to develop the maturity that invites the disconnect that perpetuates this aching loneliness to be held in respect. Today, I ask you God, to adore me and make this ‘work’ more fun.

Today, I let my pain dissolve into infinite pleasure. Today, I do not judge my feelings and perceptions as wrong or unacceptable. Today, I do my best to act as my true self, and forgive where I fall short. Today, I promise in time to forgive you for everything.

Today, I take responsibility rather than tell others what to do or how to be. Today, I believe in myself and I believe in the power of Love. Today, I believe in the answers that are inside us. Today, I reach out for good support, and let you help us remember that we are not alone.

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